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For a trip to the Caribbean, Puerto Rico will be one of your most convenient options considering you don’t need a passport or proof of vaccination to enter and leave, Uber operates in the main part of the city and to and from the airport, and Old San Juan is one of the safest and most walkable places I’ve ever been.
Caye Caulker is a A 5.5 mile scenic island off the coast of Belize with the friendliest people, amazing marine life, great food, and brilliant sunsets. You will definitely get to know people before you leave and it is really a joy to do so.
Before I actually began traveling, I had a running list of places I wanted to visit, mostly international. I had not thought of Cuba…until I thought of Cuba. I found an article that listed places off the east coast with relatively inexpensive flights and Cuba was one of those places.
Tulum, Mexico is quite beautiful and there is plenty to do between Tulum and Cancun since both are very touristy locations. What the city lacks in infrastructure, it makes up for in beauty and excitement. If you know how to avoid some of the not-so-great things, then you could absolutely have an enjoyable vacation here.
Traveling to the islands, especially one like The Bahamas, can be relatively easy because they are huge tourist destinations. With the exception of going through customs, traveling to an island is like traveling anywhere nationally. You’ll likely not run into any issues, but there are some things you may want to know before you go.
In my short trip, I took a river architecture tour, tried at least a couple Chicago food staples like Harold’s Chicken Shack and Garrett Popcorn, and even attended opening night of Wicked on Broadway. Keep reading to take a dive into my trip.
Cartagena, Colombia is an absolutely breathtaking city that is very much vivid and lively. From the famous Palenqueras to the Arabic architecture to the aromatic street food, it is an adventurer’s dream. There’s so much to discover and the locals don’t mind helping you do it.
When I decided that travel was going to be my biggest goal of life as a single woman, New Orleans topped my list of places in the United States. The thought that I could be caught by the surprise of live music on any street at any time or the idea that I could possibly have the best food dish I will ever have were good enough reasons to make a trip to NOLA happen.
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Nestled in a relatively quiet area of downtown Miami, lies a quaint Vietnamese restaurant called Tâm Tâm. I had never knowingly had Vietnamese food, but one look at the menu and I knew it was a place I needed to be. If you could measure a restaurant's worth by entry, the line outside suggests an upcoming acclaimed experience. Modest in size, Tâm Tâm is the definition of a local treasure and the kind of place I prefer to find myself when it comes to food.
Chicago is full of food gems, and each time I visit the city, I make it a point to try new restaurants, preferably black-owned. Chicago is a city in which you’ll find many Southern restaurants because The Great Migration brought the food I’m so accustomed to in Virginia up north and then across the country. Dining at these restaurants always feels familiar in that way, but I also have come to expect and enjoy the surprises that evolution and a geographical change can bring to such classic and time-honored dishes.
Caye Caulker is a A 5.5 mile scenic island off the coast of Belize with the friendliest people, amazing marine life, great food, and brilliant sunsets. You will definitely get to know people before you leave and it is really a joy to do so.
There are at least eleven villages surrounding Lake Atitlán, and you might visit them all for different reasons. I made it to four during my latest trip to Guatemala, and was amazed at how each village could be described as having its very own personality: Panajachel with its familiar vibe, illusory San Juan La Laguna, beguiling San Pedro, and reticent Santiago.
In The Bahamas, a tour guide with a sense of humor may convince you to try something that looks and feels similar to a worm. In my case, the tour guide refused to tell me what I was trying and made me eat three before he even gave me a hint. Would you try conch pistols?
Nassau cuisine is particularly interesting because chefs make use of ingredients that are not common everywhere. Like most islands, you'll find that seafood is popular, and in The Bahamas, mainly conch, snails that are indigenous to the Caribbean. Many dishes are jerk or cracked (deep-fried) and full of flavor.
Our Take
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Flavors We Found
National Picks
Before my family and I arrived in Seattle, we all heard from various people that seafood and Asian cuisine were the way to go, so we found plenty of restaurants that offered both, but we also discovered restaurants that offered other cuisines that were just as tasty.
When it comes to the best fried chicken wings and fries in Richmond, my go-to spot is Manchu, a New Orleans original that recently opened its second location right here in Virginia’s capital, more specifically the Northside neighborhood.
Looking for Christmas-y things to do, I was surprised to find that Birdie’s creates an annual pop-up called The Evergreen that transforms the space into a winter wonderland with extravagant decorations that will definitely bring you holiday cheer.
International Picks
It’s always important to know about the cuisine and good food spots when you visit somewhere new so I try to always list a few options for you. Here are five restaurants in Tulum, Mexico ranging from touristy to traditional, low cost to high cost, and small cafe vibes to beach view vibes.
In Cartagena, I booked a street food tour because that’s where all of the food emphasis is in this city. That’s not to say there aren’t some great restaurants; it’s just that street food is where you’ll find the standout recipes that are likely passed down through families, generations and years of tradition.
Puerto Rico’s cuisine is a captivating blend of indigenous Taino, Spanish, African, and Caribbean influences, creating a mouthwatering tapestry of dishes. You’ll want to try beloved local dishes like mofongo, made with fried green plantains, savory sauce and seafood, or lechón, the famous roasted pig slow-cooked to perfection.
Our Take
We travel with our taste buds wide open because food is how we connect with a place and each other. We’re the kind of travelers who plan our days around meals, who book the hotel near all the best local spots, and who will absolutely go out of the way for a great plate. We love sharing the spots that left an impression—the dishes we still think about, the flavors that surprised us, and the places you should definitely try next.
Check In: Where We Stay
We don’t just stay anywhere. These are our honest takes on stays vetted for comfort, design, and vibes.
Hotels
Hotel Ändra is roughly a 25 minute drive from Sea Tac Airport, has plenty of great food options nearby, including Lola immediately downstairs in the lobby, and it’s not far from favorite attractions like Pike Place Market, the Space Needle, Seattle Waterfront and more. If that hasn’t sold you, it is also incredibly chic and cozy—the perfect combination in my mind.
Good Hotel is a former private mansion and sustainable property in central city Antigua that began as a charitable organization years ago and evolved into several properties in different countries. While I fell in love with the design of the property, I also knew I wanted to stay because I greatly appreciated that the chain invests in the local community in a number of ways.
When I first saw that Pharrell Williams was collaborating with David Grutman to open the Goodtime Hotel in 2021, I immediately added it to the list of places I wanted to stay—partly because Pharrell is a fellow Virginia native and partly because I fell in love with the aesthetic. It just seemed like, well, a good time.
After spending a week there, I thought I would clue you in—is it really the ultimate "good time" as the name suggests? Here's what I loved and then a few things that caught me off guard.
Tagged as “Sophisticated Design Meets Historic Culture,” the 4-star St. Gregory Hotel is an incredibly chic stay perfectly situated between Dupont Circle, the West End, and Georgetown. With convenient access to local restaurants and shops, a gorgeous restaurant and bar space inside the hotel, full fitness center and more, the St. Gregory is one of the best stays you'll find in Washington D.C.
My therapist challenged me to do a solo getaway in 2019 and I chose Washington D.C. as a staycation, this time solo. From Richmond, Virginia, it’s only about a two hour drive so it’s very possible to fit many activities into one short trip; however, my goal was to relax, so I’ll share the few things I did.
Yours Truly DC is modern in design, eclectic in decor, and soulful in feel. Not only can you dine downstairs at Mercy Me Restaurant, there’s space to work remotely in the lounge, a bar to grab a drink, and even a record shop, which is certainly nothing I’ve ever seen before in a hotel.
Finding the Right Stay
If I’m going to stay somewhere for any amount of time that is not my home, then I need to make sure I have home-level comfort. Naturally, I’m very active on vacations, so my accommodations are where I rest and rejuvenate to be ready for whatever I may have planned over the course of the trip.
I’ve been wanting to take a vacation to a Getaway House since I first saw the ad on Instagram a couple years ago. I loved how the cabins looked and how it just seemed like the perfect opportunity to be off the grid. I’ve been describing it as the perfect median between camping and glamping (“glam camping”) because you get the experience of being in nature, cooking outdoors, hiking, etc. but the comfort of returning to a home with running water, shower, kitchen and beds.
A “staycation” is different from a vacation in that you remain in your home city or somewhere nearby that is usually accessed within a day or even better, a couple hours. Here’s why you might consider planning one.
Pack This
Beauty must-haves, travel-tested gear, we have all the things you’ll want in your carry-on (and checked bag).
As you well know from this blog, when I travel, I am all in for excursions, walking tours, beach days and whatever else keeps me out and about and moving. Effective sweat and odor protection is mandatory because I must smell good at all times. SheaMoisture has introduced its first-ever antiperspirant deodorant collection specifically designed for rich melanin skin, ensuring you stay fresh all day, every day.
I started traveling solo back in 2019, and one of the first things I did was add a first aid kit to my packing routine. The kit has evolved over time, but make no mistake that it has come in handy on more than one occasion. Accidents and minor illnesses can happen at any time, so I’ve got a list of twelve things I always have in my travel first aid kit.
The more I travel, the more I get it down to a system- how to pack to maximize space, what the essentials are versus what I can leave behind, how to get through the airport as quickly as possible and how to be most comfortable. I narrowed this list down to the twenty things I think you need most when you travel.
The Away expandable carry on is the perfect travel luggage so so many reasons. It’s sleek and modern, it locks with a passcode, has a front pocket and other thoughtful features, and best of all, it expands to ensure that I never have to check a bag.
Best in Travel
These are our tried-and-true essentials we don’t board a flight without. Everything here has been road-tested, airport-approved, and Truth Traveller–recommended, so consider this your go-to list for products that actually make travel smoother, more comfortable, and more beautiful.
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Best Carry-On Bag: BÉIS The Weekender Bag
Since I began shopping Beis, I haven’t looked back. My favorite features are the trolley pass through so I don’t have to carry the bag on my shoulder, the numerous organizational pockets, and the detachable bottom compartment that provides extra storage.
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Best Travel Walking Shoes: New Balance "The 530"
The product description says these have “millennium aesthetics with the reliability of a high milage running shoe.” I say that I can walk 15,000 steps in these with no foot or ankle pain. I love that they are stylish, sure, but I also love that I can be comfortable in them as well.
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Best SPF for Melanin-Rich Skin: Black Girl Sunscreen
I love this product because it’s made for us. Black people get sunburned and are not above skin cancer diagnoses—our skin is beautiful and worth protecting. I love that there is no white cast or residue to speak of, and it’s infused with ingredients that moisturize and sooth.
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Best Travel Body Cream: Sol De Janeiro Body Butter
Sol De Janeiro products just smell like vacation. This whipped body cream gives the perfect amount of hydration and glow on your great escapes. I love it because I have eczema and my skin has never once reacted negatively to this product. In fact, it’s softer and smoother.
Travel Safety
Your safety matters just as much as your sense of adventure. As much as I would encourage Black women to travel solo, I would also encourage Black women to be prepared, remain aware of your surroundings, and trust your instincts. These are personal insights to help you move through the world safety first.
Unfortunately, one of the challenges women often face is catcalling, which has a tendency to make some women feel uncomfortable, objectified, and unsafe. It can happen anywhere, but I have most experienced it internationally where certain behaviors are more culturally engrained and locals are very much drawn to tourists. The most important thing is our safety, so let’s get into preparedness tips and ways to cope when catcalling happens.
I started traveling solo back in 2019, and one of the first things I did was add a first aid kit to my packing routine. The kit has evolved over time, but make no mistake that it has come in handy on more than one occasion. Accidents and minor illnesses can happen at any time, so I’ve got a list of twelve things I always have in my travel first aid kit.
When I was planning my very first international trip as a solo female traveler, I came across The Smart Traveler Enrollment Program (STEP) and a strong recommendation from another solo traveler to utilize it. Of course we always hope that nothing happens to us abroad, or even at home for that matter, but in the event that it does, registering with nearest US embassy is one way to be prepared or to get the information you need in an emergency.
The number one question I’ve gotten is “how do you do it on your own?” and that was the primary reason for starting this blog. Doing it on my own in the last five years, I’ve picked up a few tips and tricks that might make the idea of traveling solo a little less scary for a woman that may want to venture out on her own.
When you take a trip, you undoubtedly need at least your driver’s license and/or passport and now even your proof of vaccination card, but there are other documents that you may want to consider carrying with you.
The Wellness Edit: Rest & Reset
Wherever you go, peace goes too. Travel is wellness for us. It’s the best time for rituals and reflections, especially when you’re solo. Your healing journey might look like relaxing spa visits and wellness resorts or it might look like hiking and journaling on the beach. We've got recommendations because we believe wellness isn’t a break from travel, it’s a part of it.
Discover how to find the perfect balance between thrilling adventures and rejuvenating self-care. Incorporating wellness and mindful activities into your itinerary can be the difference between a fulfilling trip and returning home having experienced burnout. This guide is your go-to resource for maintaining balance and joy while you travel.
Traveling through grief is a reminder that we have the power to embark on a journey of self-discovery and find healing as we interact with the richness of the world around us. Even in far-flung corners of the world, in different languages, in unfamiliar environments, you can connect through shared experiences, laughter, and heartfelt conversations. You can find a sense of belonging, something easily misplaced in the early stages of grief. Traveling is a lasting reminder that in your darkest moments, the world can be a source of light.
Staying healthy has obviously always been important, but post-pandemic, it’s even more critical, especially when traveling abroad. I never get sick, and I owe it to a great immune system, but also to a few things I do on and in between trips to boost my immune system and overall health and wellness.
Travel was and still is of major concern, namely travel that involved time in the airport or stations that are typically characterized by crowds of people in close quarters. Although travel for leisure, especially internationally, is still not highly recommended, it is still very possible to do so in a way that minimizes risk and allows for social distancing and health safety.
When I set the goal to travel it was always with the intent of doing it alone, but initially it was not about mindfulness. Because I’m introverted, I have always preferred and prioritized alone time, so when I first traveled alone as an adult, naturally it felt more instinctive and comfortable for me. As my passion grew for traveling, I also realized that each time, I discover more about myself than I knew before.
Through Our Lens
Places we’ve wandered. Moments we’ve captured.
Backdropped by volcanos and sitting almost directly atop tectonic plates, Antigua is compassed and enchanting where everything you see feels like picture inside of picture inside of picture. No more than a simple overlay of grids, this colonial town is easy to navigate and charming enough to be drawn into exploring every nook and cranny. More than anything, I found myself in awe at the natural beauty of Guatemalan people and amazed at reclamation after disaster.
Every time I’ve visited an island, I’m always overwhelmingly enthralled with the existence of color from the architecture to the food to the people. It is incredibly hard for me to strike a balance between being in the moment and wanting to capture everything as a photographer so that I don’t forget what my eyes saw and my heart felt. At least for a couple of hours, I walked and took in the beauty of this foreign land. Here is what I saw.
Miami is an ideal vacation for escapism without having to leave the country. The combination of bold colors, warm sun, and being by the water is truly undefeated.
For a week, I walked around absorbing as much of this kind of energy as I could, hoping to bottle a bit of it to return to Virginia with me. I look at the photos I captured and they feel like a whispered memory from an old friend, vibrant and alive, yet just out of reach until next time.
Jamaica is a breathtaking country, and while there, I learned so much about the culture including the flag's symbolism, the origins of jerk food, of which I had my fill, and of course I heard the music of the great Bob Marley.
It’s dynamic. It’s kaleidoscopic. It’s spirited. It’s San Juan La Laguna. From the time I stepped off the boat onto the dock, I could feel the vibration of the village. It appeared that more people were arriving than leaving, and that was both simultaneously a good indication that I would love it but that I also might have an itch to stay.
Stacks of fruit. Heaps of seaweed. Rustic furniture. Raw charm. Tulum is naturally beautiful in the way a place or thing doesn’t have to try hard to be anything but what it is. Being here urges you to acknowledge the balance between ancient and neo-bohemia. What you see is what you get. No more. No less. Take it or leave it.
Joshua Tree is on the map as the perfect getaway to do just that- get away. There’s nothing but desert and hiking trails, so essentially a trendy call of the wild. It sits between the Mojave Desert and the Colorado Desert and is named for the yucca tree that, in my mind, resembles something out of a Dr. Seuss book. There are a few things to know, but most important to note is that this is a place you go to explore and commune with nature.